Bigg Boss 14: Eijaz Khan opens up about failed relationships, says he projected ‘childhood trauma’ on them

Bigg Boss 14 contestant Eijaz Khan bared his coronary heart in an interview, and mentioned how his childhood traumas have influenced his romantic relationships. Recently, Eijaz opened up on the present about having been accused of rape by a former associate.

In an interview, the actor mentioned that he tasks his previous traumas onto his relationships, which generally finish traumatically.

He advised Pinkvilla, “I have learnt many lessons during my relationships. Primarily I used to be an idiot, blamed some beautiful people who came into my life, blamed them. I have realised how I used to project my insecurities and my childhood trauma on them, how my basic nature was to play this passive aggressive person. How I wasn’t equipped for a relationship.”

He continued, “There are a few things that my comfort zone ends up in a crisis cycle. I end up having that pattern again and again and impose those patterns on them and leave my partners confused and we part ways, sometimes amicably, sometimes traumatically. But all of them are today settled. It is wrong for me to speak for them today.”

Eijaz mentioned that he ‘hated’ his life, however has realised that the one means he can restore damaged relationships is by studying to restore his relationship with himself. “I think I was going through my life enjoying hating it and I have realised that I deserve to be happy. I deserve it and I will get it. I have started loving myself now,” he concluded.

In final week’s Weekend Ka Vaar episode, host Salman Khan confirmed a clip of a dialog between Eijaz and Sidharth Shukla, during which Eijaz spoke a couple of main ‘kaand’ from his previous. “I used to help all women and protect those that needed it. There was one such and later I was charged with rape because I promised I’d marry her but didn’t. She made it into a rape case and I had to go to jail,” he mentioned. Eijaz mentioned that the incident broke him, and that he needed to skip the premiere of his movie Tanu Weds Manu and transfer to Dharamshala for a while.

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Eijaz mentioned that he has two sides to his character — one which respects girls as a result of he has a youthful sister, and the opposite that may’t deal with disrespect, and feels the necessity to react with aggression.

After enjoying the clip, Salman additionally advised Eijaz, “Aap galat jaoge to galat dikhoge, but agar sahi ho to sahi ho na (If you go the wrong way, you will come across as inappropriate, but if you play well, you will be respected).” Eijaz then advised Salman, “I know I am right but I am awkward and often cross-check. I am extra conscious.” Salman responded saying, “Happens with everyone. Why are you scared? We are with you.”

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